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00 Work/TESL: Teaching English as a Second Language: English Teacher/Joy Sanchez: Philippines: English Teacher: Skype: Met at New Star, Bac Ninh, Vietnam: IMO: FB

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00 Work/TESL: Teaching English as a Second Language: English Teacher/Tan Van Foreign Language School in HCM VN

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00 Work/TESL: Teaching English as a Second Language: English Teacher/Tram Pham HNY got me the jobs at HCM New Star & Tan Van

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02 Friends/Kathy Friend Thao Duong

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Original Oatmeal Gmail	My home page is at http://OriginalOatmeal.WordPress.com but wordpress does no...	May 6

Brent Groth	Perfect, we'll just keep the ball rolling and create a monstrosity of everyth...	May 7

P.Thao Duong <katiefoung@gmail.com>	May 9
to me

Pls don't send any thing for me 

I don't want to get more stress by your stress

My girl friend told me , now you have a new girl friend and take her to a bicycle keep do it

Pls don't conected with me again

Thanks

Kathy!

Original Oatmeal Gmail	i do not have a girl friend do not tell me what to do you owe me 4.000.000 VND	May 10

Original Oatmeal Gmail	MO would have a higher percentage of having things that a person may like sin...	May 10

P.Thao Duong <katiefoung@gmail.com>	May 10
to me

And you own me the money my morther give you (not talking about the food) 

About your bicycle , it's just 3.000.000 vnd 

What about 4.000.000?

You're too greedy!

I talking with my morther and she said that

If you give me back the money you own my morther , she will give the money for me to take for you :)

You just very selfish guy men!

Original Oatmeal Gmail <originaloatmeal@gmail.com>	May 10
to P.Thao

I do not owe you money because you told me that I do not owe you money.

You owe me money because you stole my bike and never gave me the money for the bike.

I did not want to take Vietnamese classes.

P.Thao Duong <katiefoung@gmail.com>	May 10
to me

why you don't tell me for the first time i take you to the university , when the time your bicycle gone ?

I still remember the night when i asking i will sell you bicycle , you think alitle and you says YES

By the way 

I think you shouldn't don't asking me any more about money again

You rich than me - remember - working 18.000.000 vnd /month , and my morther just give me 100 vnd/1 day it's mean 3.000.000/ month

What's kind of the boy friend asking about his ex girfiend money when he still alive , have anought leg and arm

Pls don't keep me regretful for i take care you to my home .And take care you 1 month. And now to let you make me really stress!

Original Oatmeal Gmail <originaloatmeal@gmail.com>	May 10
to P.Thao

you told me that the money for the class came from your mother

i did not tell you to sell the bike.... i told you that i kind of like d the idea of selling my bike

i told you i was thinking about selling my bike. i never made a final decision about

i was asking you questions to help me make better decisions about my bike

you cannot threaten me with those things

you helped me because you wanted to help me

i never asked you for help.... i never asked for food. i did not ask for a place to live

i did not ask for those things

i would owe  you money, if we made a deal, a trade..... but we made no deal

you  gave me a free deal

because if u do not talk about money,      then no money is in the deal

you have to honor deals....... you gave me a free deal with no strings attached

your Vietnamese mentality does not understand what free means

i am not asking for money

i am just telling you facts

i am saying you lied to me

you did me wrong

you stole money from me

i will continue to tell people about this because you did bad

you stole money from me

and you are mad that you gave me a free deal

and you do not understand what free deals are


you think free means that i have to pay you back

you did not give me a loan

you gave me things for fr

but i did not give u my bike

u stole my bike

u stole my money

P.Thao Duong <katiefoung@gmail.com>	May 10
to me

Joey - did i stolen you money

And you don't ask any thing help form me?

When i meet you - you just a lost home people

And you stay ALONG TIME in my friend house

With not thing help for her

And you write for me a letter for help (i still save in my CS acount)

Don't said you did asking me for ANY THING

.

My money is not the air

Ok

You can talking bad about me in your web or anything

But it still bad for you too

Because i still be your ex girl friend 1 month

And you a stupid guy to choice the girl is me for ASKING HELP

.

I think if i mad , you mad than me (is your write in your web you can not finish your school when you 6 year old) - i think every people meet you is know your mad (special your morther and your sister)

If you write some thing wrong about me again 

I promise with you we will not can be good or any thing

I will write any privite letter for any thing friend of you and tell them who really are you

But i think i shouldn't do that

You enough bad thing deserve what you make it!

P.Thao Duong <katiefoung@gmail.com>	May 10
to me

If for the first time i know YOU ARE A CRAZY MEN , ALWAYS TALKING AND WORKING STRANGER , I THING I WILL HAVE A DECISION : NEVER TAKE YOU TO MY HOME

2013/5/10 P.Thao Duong <katiefoung@gmail.com>

Original Oatmeal Gmail <originaloatmeal@gmail.com>	May 11
to P.Thao

In CS, I was only asking to stay at your house for 3 or so days.

But you said to me that you would met me stay at your house for at least 1 month.

I do not have a girl friend. I do not have many friends.

I did not tell you to sell my bike. I was still thinking about it.

You got scared about your mother and you were confused with my questions about my bike.

You thought that my questions about the bike meant that I wanted to sell my bike.

That is not what questions mean.

You have a hard time understanding what questions are.

You have a hard time understanding what free means.

You constantly make fun of me to make yourself feel better.

You say bad things about me that are not true so you can pretend you did not make mistakes.



Stop lying.

You stole money from me.

You stole my bike. You lie. You complain.

You try to kill me. You bite and hurt me. Worry comes from your heart and not from me.

I never asked for 1 month at your house. I only asked for a few days. But you said a month or more.

You wanted to be with me forever. I told you that you could have me.

I told you I would try my best to help you for the rest of your life.

You live in a fantasy world.

You keep saying things about my mother and family.

You say things that are not true.

I try many times to help you see  that what you say is not true.

You say lies as a way to reduce the pain in your life.

You stole my money and bike.

I did not hit you. I did not run away. I did not break up with you.

There are many things you do not understand.

I am always here for you.

I will always love and care about you.

P.Thao Duong <katiefoung@gmail.com>	May 11
to me

so what's you really want to?

the money to take your virgin get back ?

I don't think you love me Joey 

When you still life in my house , i still can see you chatting and check cell phone with some girl in CS 

And after you live

You make me have to thing back : I should come back with you again

And after that , you make me did wrong , when i have to let my motobicycle so far the way to come home without hand help and money to get the taxi or gasoline

Is it your love?

It's really stranger

Original Oatmeal Gmail <originaloatmeal@gmail.com>	May 11
to P.Thao

you need to understand how you stole my bike and money

i did not do you wrong

you do not understand these situations

you are only looking at these things from your own eyes

P.Thao Duong <katiefoung@gmail.com>	May 11
to me

I don't know why i have to talking with you!

I talking with you before : i didn't working , so i don't have the money to get back!

And my morther said : I didn't have to get back the money for you! Because she give you enought - i you acept to

My morther said with me : she don't want you come back to me , and don't want i come back to you

She said you same like a ungrateful people

Never enought for helpful form you!

And i live with my morther , when my morther said not. I will said not too!

Done it!

Brent Groth <groth.brent@gmail.com>	May 11
to me

Let's just try to custom what will be appropriate for the world, and
for the whole word, and you can make a site as a side project for
things you specifically like, and I may do that as well, but I think
as the site is getting built, you may realize it will be pretty cool,
and maybe have a lot of stuff you might really like.  But making
branch sites off of MO might be nice, like having different companies
in a sense.

Original Oatmeal Gmail <originaloatmeal@gmail.com>	May 11
to P.Thao

Your mother feels sad. Your mother is not being nice. Your mother is not grateful. Your mother is blaming her problems on me. You blame your problems on me. You made mistakes. You stole 4.000.000 VND from me. You stole my bike. You gave me a class I did not want. You always tried to make me eat food I did not want. You get mad at me about everything. I was trying to be there for you but you kept on blaming all your problems on me. When something bad happened, you would say that it was my fault.

It does not matter what your mother thinks. What matters are deals and contracts and honor and integrity and character. If you say something then you do it. You said you would give me things for free and that is why I do not owe you anything. I do not owe you money because that is what you told me. You told me free and free means free, but I never gave you my bike. I did not say that my bike was free for you to take and sell. That is the difference.

P.Thao Duong <katiefoung@gmail.com>	May 12
to me

If you said when you do some thing for me and you DON'T LIKE IT , that's you mean I OWN you

I don't want to take you go to school - i just promise with you : I will go to your school for the first day we meeting this girl

I don't want to be nice with your boss everytime she call me to complanin your work , but i have to do , because you need this work to find the money

(did you pay for me some thing to give back my cell phone money ? did you? )

I don't want to waiting you at the coffee shop at the aftenoon and the morning

I didn't use coffee to much like this before

And i don't want to go "hang out" at the afternoon , the sun can burn my skin , i have to stay at home to save it 

But i have to do it because of you

100.000 vnd /1 day or more

(50.000 vnd for the gasoline go EVERY WHERE in Ho Chi Minh city , to your school check)

30.000 vnd / 1 cup of coffee X 2 = 60.000 vnd (for me) - some time i have to pay for you - remember , at the school is the Church

it's mean 110.000 /1 day X 30 day = 3.000.000 vnd

(where is my money ? If you think i own you money because you have to do some thing you don't want to me - pls think What I have to do some thing I DON"T WANT TO DO because of you - and if you can pay for my money back , i will pay for you again - i write for your bill!)

I hear my ex bf talking you said with him , my morther is blind and deaf

He show me for the last time we meetting

He just want me to know the true

I think you didn't have to said that , because i can see what you doing

You come to my home , hang out with my friend in the Charity , and you just SLEEP AND WAKE UP TO EAT , it's all

And you do it in my home town too 

My morther said , she don't want you come to my home

Not because you don't have money right now , beacause you look like the people is not helpful for any person , and you teach me BAD

Just want to watch the television for all night , after that come to the computer and chatting with "friend" may be is a girl , and boy friend , may be to find "some girl"

And let my morther fix any thing , she have to washing your clother , and clean it to you can take for next day - and i see it , but still waiting for you to fixxing (did you make some thing to help my mother , to i CAN THING GOOD ABOUT YOU ?)

And with me , you promise with me : I will help you to open your company - because i want you happy!

But you just lie to me , to let me help you FIRST

And the time to your TURN - you let me go back hom with not MONEY to take care my gasoline

How much money i have to asking you to fix my soul when you do that's wrong with me?

Let's forget it all

Truely , yesterday 11/05/2013 , my ex boy friend is VietNamese come back 

He's friend of my ex boy friend

We are friend when we still young - we learning Civil Enginerring at University at my father is a teacher in this, but i and my ex bf not finish , just he - 10 year ago

And when my ex bf have a wife , in the party of wedding , he give me to this men

All his familly like me , just his mother don't (because she don't want her children married with a girl friend have more than 1 boy friend , like me)

And he life with his mother , so that's why we have to broken

But now his morther DIE 

And he still be young (30 year old, 1983) , and single

And want to come back (add my fb is conection)

He so strong in sex , and special , he always take care money for me everytime we hang out - even when we still a friend , or the time we in love

And my morther with his brother is a bussiness friend!

It's eassy for me to have a new relationship

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I hope it work for you too!

Let's think everything is the past , and forget it all

I will never asking and thinking about your money (18.000.000vnd) - may be you can have it because it have my energy in this too

And May Be i own you 4.000.000

So you own me 4.000.000 (for the gasalone , for the coffee , for the cab internet , for the power of television) - i don't said about the money of food , of water , of house , and sex - because some time true you are PAY FOR MY FOOD too , and have sex is voluntary the all of us

Some time you asking me when the time i don't want to , it's the time i have period , remember

I just want to forget it all

I can have a new life , with new Vietnamese people i like

So i hope you too!

Find a new girl friend , and in datting with them , pls choice the people your mother asking you if you still want she alive and don't up set enough to die

After that , some day when i know you have a exprience with a new familly

May be we can come to be friend

Like your mother and your father still know

And i can invite you come to my wedding

May be to give you some money 

It's not about the money - it's about this time i still scared about you! And i have a new bf , i don't want to meeting you , because i think if i meeting you we will have the change to come back

I don't think it's good for me , and good for you too , we have to much different!

Ask i know

P.Thao Duong <katiefoung@gmail.com>	May 12
to me

I don't know why , but our relationship is the past Joey 

When we broken , some thing is happen to me 

Everything is change

The love of my familly to you is change

My apology for you is change

You are choice to leave my life , even i have to cry when i talking with the owner and the police to keep save you in my house 

And my morther have to pay 1.000.000 for the police because she save the forgeriner in the house but not talking for them.

And after we pay all for it. You still choice to leave

And i still remember you said with me : Because your house is so far from District 1 - the foreigner , and your house is too small and to sad

And after that , i really see you funny when you leave me, you datting with girls everyday :)

And have fun so much

May be you can think you just datting , but not have sex - but sex just is the way you have to do for the people in the world

I still think : it's too bad to have a relationship and let it go

But it's not all my fault - you promise with me you never leave me , but you do that - go hang out with the girl , and use the money people should give to his girlfriend to finish her dream , but Choice to use for hang out with girl

I don't want to lost my time for the person always know the way to make me hurt but keep doing

I just 1 life to live , 1 time to do

So i have to choice for me the best

I don't want to make my morther lost the time when i have a BAD CHOICE again

You are leave my life

We are broken , and we choice to do it ? Remember ? 

Go to the Embasy and asking for the govement , asking for own them some money to buy the ticket to come your home. And sign promise with them you will pay back for them when you come home (i think the govement will have some way to help the people of their coutry when the people have trouble in another land their grow up)

Retired SOON with your mom and sorry for your dad

And just thinking everything you meeting in VietNam is just the ACIDENT

I'm sorry because i choice to be the first love of you but i didn't finish all

But i think may be you can find some good gf better for you than me , just when you come back your country and live with your family.

But , try to find the way to come back America is the first option

Every people have to love the place they grow up , if not , they will have nothing (it's happen for the Vietnamese people too).

2013/5/12 P.Thao Duong <katiefoung@gmail.com>

Original Oatmeal Gmail <originaloatmeal@gmail.com>	May 12
to P.Thao

i do not owe you money because that is not how things works and vietnam is my home. i am vietnamese. i was born and raised in vietnam. i am not american. i never will be american. i did not leave your life. you left me. i am still here. i am not a bad choice. i was the best choice you have ever made in your life. i did not choose to leave. i never said that. you are making up stuff. i told you i wanted to stay at your house. relationships never die. it is not in the past

Original Oatmeal Gmail <originaloatmeal@gmail.com>	May 15
to P.Thao

You owe me money. Please stop stealing.

P.Thao Duong <katiefoung@gmail.com>	May 15
to me

I'm in dating and on the way to get married with some men in Eastdating VietNam

It's a company to finding love to get married VietNam girl and Causian men

http://www.datevn.com/about/contact.php

This is the website of them (have a English tabe , but if can't find , use the GG to read)

And may be you don't know

The man when want to meeting women have to pay all money for the meeting

When write a letter , men have lost 20 USD to can be send for the girl they love

Money make up for the girl , everything , i didn't have pay (even some girl in dating with , Have a Children , but i just have a honey or some thing)

And the company have another police to make sure all the man talking about the job , and the marital status of they is a True or Lie

And after the meeting , the ticket planet , the wedding , the man have to finish all , this is a rules of the world

And before i recept you msm just a few minutes , the girls working in this Company Datting is calling for me

You didn't have to worry i have to stealling your money again

Because now i can find a company and company will have me to find some man RICH more than you , to help me take care my world 

Understand?

I'm out of your live , and true , i didn't want to come back

Hope u can do the best of your life , die or live , i don't want to care it again. (why orther woman can have the man take care they life , but i don't. And have to still reply the sms of the men asking my money everyday?)

I on the way to find some men handsome and can take care my life good

Hope u can find some girl like me , but i think she didn't life in the world , and i didn't want to stupid again! 

I didn't want to datting , i want to married

With some adult men , enought money , and enought adult , not need much handsome , but know the way and the rules to take care women and the rules in the world is MAN have to Pay MONEY for the WOMEN

I will forget all about the everything about you and me , when i have a husband and i easy to have it

Pls don't write for me any letter again

I don't have much time to anoying about that!

By and never want to see u again!

Original Oatmeal Gmail <originaloatmeal@gmail.com>	May 15
to P.Thao

Do what you say. That is a rule of this world. Keep your promises. You fail to keep your promises. You do not always do what you say you will do. You struggle with honesty. Your integrity falters. Money is not the biggest issue in the world. Honesty is more important than money. Plus, honesty will protect your financial endeavors. You still owe me money. You lied to me about the money. That is the issue. That diminishes your honor. You lose a coat of character when you steal bikes.

I never left you. You are free. I am still here. I am your friend. I always will be there for you. I will always love you. That will never change. It is your life. You can do what you want. You are free. When I lived in district 8 of Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam, you were still just as free as you are now. Please make wise decisions in your life. I care about you. I did my best to be there for you. I promised that I would marry you if you wanted to marry me because it is always up to the woman.

I like making friends. I do not date people. When I first met you, you were using certain English words that may have been wrong. You were saying that I was your "Boy-Friend" which either met we were in some kind of romantic relationship that goes beyond the scope of just friends, or you may have met to say that I was your male friend. You may have meant to say that we were just friends. I tried correcting you a few times but you kept on saying it. We never became actual boy-friend and girl-friend to each other. We were and are just friends and nothing changed, but I stopped trying to correct your poor English and you continued calling me your boy friend and I went along with because I did not want to break your heart. I do like you as more than just friends, but I was never sure if I wanted to stay with you for the rest of my life or not. there are many things that I liked about you and I decided to give myself to you because I felt sorry for you and I wanted you to have love and know love and to feel love.

I gave myself to you because I care about you. However, you have rejected me mostly because I refuse to give you all of my money. I promise to try to give you however much money or things or time or advice or whatever that I can to and for you and those people around you, but you wanted more than just that.

You are very selfish. You have told me that you are selfish and that you do not want to change. I am always here to help if I can. You may steal money and things from other men in the future. You may have stolen my thumb drives, water bottle, and other important things.

Please do not lie to people about what happens in life. Do not steal money from people like you stole money from me. Do not steal bikes from people like you have stolen bikes from me. Do not make people eat what they do not want to eat like you have to me. Do not yell at people like you have yelled at me. Do not bite and hurt people like you have to me.

P.Thao Duong <katiefoung@gmail.com>	May 15
to me

Thanks you for reminder

I will not do this mistake to my new boy friend!

But , i don't need you belive me , just my friend belive me it's enought

My girl friend working in the company promise me , i can find another boy friend good than you

The boy have to pay for any money still the first day in date , and for the company to still conected , and after that for the wedding

And she said , the company have another in another country , to make sure THEY NOT LIAR , ABOUT THEY JOB 

The rule in the world : The man have to pay any thing for the woman they meet

I make the different , i pay money for you! That's why i lost my love

I on the way to telling my self I DON"T WANT TO DO THIS AGAIN 

It's enought stupid for me!

Do you understand ? 

So it's about me

Don't have to worry it! (i give the website for you - want to date me ? come to this website , asking the company)

But if you not enought the money - pls stay away from me.

I don't want to do some thing stupid again with my life

I have not the time to play this game everyday

I want to married! and you said : I can not do that! 

So , just shut up and leave!

My end letter for you!

I don't want to send any letter again!

Have to sleep soon tomorow i have a date with my girl friend in the company dating to take a new picture me

Kathy

Original Oatmeal Gmail <originaloatmeal@gmail.com>	May 15
to P.Thao

You still owe me money, whether you like it or not and whether you know it or not. I do not owe you money because you made a deal with me that you would do things for me for free. That is how the world works. The depravity of the cancer in our brains is a curse that leaves us in darkness. Apathy makes you forget about the things that I say to you. The irony is that I warned you about these things. The rules of this world includes keeping your word and you are failing to see that.

Men and women alike are meant to live lives that are blameless and that are bordering towards perfection. I am deeply concern with the affairs of your well-being. I need to go to the police. I need to tell the cops that you stole my bike. I need to tell the government of Vietnam that you stole over $4.000.000 Vietnamese money currency exchange money of the Vietnam Viet Nam people and country VND, which is over $200 United States currency money USD.

You need to wake up. I never left you. I am still here. I did not run away. I am your father. I am still here for you. Kathy, I still love you deeply. i care about. It does not matter what you do. We were never in a romantic relationship. We were never in a sexual relationship. I do want you to give me back the money that you owe me. I will love you no matter what. You need to stop lying about the pain that you live in. I can see the pain inside of you. I can see that you are rushing into relationships. You are hoping for true love without the obligations of certain commitments or obligations in the alteration of your own life.

There are many things that you are refusing to admit. You failed to listen to me. I tried counseling you. I tried telling you that I was not sure if I wanted to sell my own bicycle or not. You made me do things that were not always completely right. I was always trying to do everything that you would ask to do.

You owe me money. I never hit you. I am your father. You hit your own father. You spat on me. You bit me. You made me bleed. You ran me over with your motor-bike. You were always trying to kill me. I was being a father-figure to you. I was always there for you. I never hit you. I never hurt you. I never ran away from you. I was always there for you. I will always be there for you. I am still your friend. That cannot ever change. Relationships never do end. Follow your heart but lust can destroy you. Please listen to what I am saying.

You get jealous of me. You are always jealous of my life. You are lost in your thoughts. You have demons inside of you. You have bipolar. You have split personalities. You have monsters within your soul. You fight between the Good Kathy and the Bad Kathy. I saw the struggle within you each day. I tried saving you. I am still trying to save you.

Jesus can save you. You never were a Christian. Plus, not all Catholics are actually Christian. Please ask Christ to save you from your sins or you will burn in hell forever. Your father may be in Hell right now, burning in Hell. If you go to Hell, you will not see your father there. I am not saying that your father is in Hell. I do not know where he is. I do know that Jesus Christ is the only one who can take you to Heaven. You will be screaming in eternal fire and darkness if you try living life apart from your Creator and Savior. Jesus wants you. I love you with the love of Christ. That is my sacrificial agape love to and for you. That always was my love for you.

You still owe me money. Everybody needs to know that you should go to jail. You should go to prison. You stole money from me. You stole my bike. You should be thrown in a hole and buried. You should suffer forever and ever, but I still love you. You deserve pain and torture. I do forgive you.

Your life is a lie and you need to change your ways. You feel rejected from your own father. You felt like your father never accepted you truly. You were always deeply offended whenever I mentioned your father to you. This means that you have a daddy complex that is deeply cursed and afflicted from the events in your life. When you were younger, your parents would lock you and your younger sister in your own house and she locked your bath room as well. So you would be stuck in the house for hours to days without a bath room. Such treatment can pervert your mind and take you places you do not want to go.

Please give me my money. Please stop lying about these situations. Stop looking for love in all the wrong places. Go to a Christian church and leave Buddha. You are losing your mind and soul. I love you. I will always love you. I never left you. I did not go anywhere. I gave you everything. You betrayed me.

P.Thao Duong <katiefoung@gmail.com>	May 15
to me

We should meeting in the court if you want to Joey

I don't care about that! In true time , some devoice have to come to the court , and if you want , call for the police , i and my morther will come with you

Thanks you for your love 

Your love is always make me suck already

Pls make this love for another woman and let's see what happen she will done with you

And i think you just love your money

Love me ? Sorried (it's make me laught alot!)

What's you doing for me when you said you love me ? 

Do good with your job (NO) - be friend with your BOSS , buy for her some gilft to make sure they don't call to anoying your gf (NO)

Find a new taxi driver to make sure you can go to school by your self when your gf realy tired (NO) - i have to pay money back all about of that

Sorried , you don't love me!

What about if i really tired , i sick , and i didn't have any money for buy medicine to me

And if i still belive you love me (I should go to the hell because i will die for it)

Sorried ? Love me ? Really ?

You just love your body , need some people have sex with you (sorried i don't want to do that! I can do it for my self! And just for my husband in the future time , i don't want to lost my time)

"Pls don't like a children :

Oh my god - i lost the bicycle , some one stolen bicycle from me , it could be my ex girl friend , i should give her some email for her to get back

Oh my god - i hang out with some girl , but didn't know why she don't love me , she take all my money - now i didn't have enought money to still alive , i should come back to asking my ex gf to get back"

You think i didn't see that ? I see

And can't belive how can you still keep write a letter for me 

It's really make me laught alot

And you make me know what really style of my husband i want to choice , it's all!

Thanks you for help it!

Original Oatmeal Gmail <originaloatmeal@gmail.com>	May 15
to P.Thao

You do not know what Love is because you are running away from the creator and savior and sustainer of love. You need to know Christ to know love. Gifts are not gifts if they are required. You need Christ. He can complete you. He is good to the last drop. Stop killing your father. I am your father. Kathy, this is Joey Arnold, the Original Oatmeal. This is Wednesday night in Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam. This is the 15th of May of the year 2013. Kathy, I am your father. Your blood father is suffering because of you. Please consider your actions.

Children are not bad. You are comparing me to children. You seem to hate children. You confuse simplicity with stupidity. Simplicity is from a clear conscious. That is what I have. You are blind. You do not see my words or face. You do not hear my cries. This is not about money. This is about you. When you lie, you eat up your face and you bring shame to your father and mother. You have been blinded by the lies of your countries. Communism and socialism destroys and is eating up your face and you are eating your face and I am your father. I love you. You laugh because it hurts. You laugh because it is true. You do not see the pain of this world. You hide it . You walk away from what is real. You refuse to ask for the right kind of help. You are always yelling at your mother just like Tram who always abused her mother and family as well. Your laughter is froma decay of your moral self. You are losing all that is right and good in you. I see a change from who you were in your photos with what you are becoming. It is so sad. I am here to help save you from yourself.

I had sex with you in order to save you. I was trying to help you. I was trying to give you something that you may never have. A few times when you did asked me for sex, I said no to you, which made you so angry. I was upset and sad whenever you got mad and that is part of why I would have sex with you. I did it to try to make you happy. I gave everything I had to make you happy and you still get mad at me.

This means that nobody can make you happy because you are always coming up with things to get mad at. You say bad things about my mother and I am only here to help and you always make fun of me. I never hit you. I did not run away from you. You ran me over with your bicycle. Yous stole my bicycle. You stole over 4 million "dollars." I am your father. You almost killed me. You threw a chair at me. We were never in a real relationship. We were in an abusive relationship where you were always trying to make me get you pregnant. Each day you said you loved me and then you would say that you hated me. You wanted to marry me and then divorce me each and every single day. I am still here to help you. I never left you. I am still here. I will always be here for you. Your laughter is an evidence of the pain. stop lying to yourself about the pain. Stop hurting yourself by punching yourself and hitting your head against the wall whenever your mother starts hitting you like she does. Stop running away from these real issues that are destroying you.

Only Christ can save you from yourself. Turn or burn. Come or you will fall to the dark side of the force of the new Star Wars Episode VII 7 that is coming out in the year 2015, directed by J.J. Abrams and not Joss Weadon, staring Mark Hammill as Luke Skywalker, Harrison Ford as Han Solo, Carrie Fisher as Leia Organa, the big hairy ape monster, and Lando who was a movie star before sensational nigger rapper Will Smith of the ghetto lands of Hitler.

P.Thao Duong <katiefoung@gmail.com>	May 16
to me

You didn't my father Joey

My father is interligent than you

He finish two university - and become to teacher master at University he study

And all his study when he was young - always stay in number 3 / 30 people in classmate

He is never have some thing wrong in the public when he study

And he never asking his wife for money - just my morther do it

My father is very rich

He have 3 house , 1 land (enough to building 4 house 4miles x 20 miles)

And he is strong heart , he never asking my morther money , still he Blind because diabeter

He still working in the company of his girl friend (for 4 year when the time he can't see any thing) - they agreed bc he is genious enough to needn't have to see any thing

And after 4 year - he Die

And when i going to school to finish my university - when he in the hospital ready to die , he still get me money (the money he take form my grandmorther , and should give for the doctor - but still let for me , because he know i just can do good work with my father money)

And He DIE , because of ME

He have sock in his heart

If my morther or my sister still in home this day , they will know what number to call the hospital to take him to go.

But i didn't know that , i just stay away and cry , but still he die , he just said : Don't cry daughter , die is normal way , it's not important!

And because of me not enough interligent , he lost the time to come to the hospital , and that's why he die.

But when he die , he said with my morther and my younger sister , do not blame me.

And give my morther some money in the bank to keep take care about me

My father is not same like your mother - my father is rich , your mother no

 

I'm using my father money everyday still now

And he die because my fault

It's true , every people in my home (my grandmother , my mother , my younger sister is know that)

May be my younger sister is not have enough time to tell you

But i do

So if you said : You are my father - it's just coming true if you already to let i have fault enough to make you to die

.

It's a different about my father and your morther

My father is rich - and he take me a habits to always use the money of the man

He teach me that

And he said when i get married , he want me married some Rich Men like him

If you want to know about my father (because when you coming , he die)

You are not the same like my father!

My father is Rich , but you No.

Original Oatmeal Gmail <originaloatmeal@gmail.com>	May 16
to P.Thao

You do not know love. You do not know wealth. Humans created money as a means of slavery. Currency delays our ability to the art that you value. Your hand-made shop is against the tyranny of the formality of the trade. The things of the heart are much more priceless than material wealth that comes and go. Things are rapidly decaying. Life is short. You did not exactly kill your father. Do not blame yourself. Things happen. We made mistakes. You say you thought I wanted to sell my bicycle. I am not sure what to think about that. We all make mistakes. You do not understand everything. You do not understand all the situations of this world. You do not understand my father. You do not understand me. You do not understand my mother. I do understand you. I study people for a living. I understand the psychology and science and sociology and theology and theories and facts behind people and humanity as a whole. I always read your face and I study it like I study in college.

I did graduate from college. I was in college for over 5 different years. I did as well as I could. My mother was rich in spirit, which lasts longer than being rich in material wealth, which you cannot take with you to meet Gandhi with. I never hurt you. I did not hit you. I did not run away from you. I was going to another school. I never asked you to feed me. I did not ask you for anything. I did not ask you for money. I did not want to live at your house. I did not ask to live there. i did not beg you. it was your idea. You wanted to do things for me. You said that you do things for me for free. You cannot want money from me if you say that you do things for free. I never said that I would do anything for you for free. I never said that you can have my bicycle. I never said that I wanted a Vietnamese class. I never said that you can have my class. You need Christ. I am like your father. I am your father. You fail to see that. Put your clothes back on. Read my words. Stop lying. Be nice to people. The medicine might be making you sicker. You did not totally kill your father. Do not blame yourself, because you do blame yourself. You need love. You need to know the love of Christ. Buddha does not have real love for you. Jack Sparrow cannot give you Everlasting Drunkenness. There are many many things in this world that you do not understand.

You are the child. I am the master. You stole my money. Stop being so bad.

P.Thao Duong <katiefoung@gmail.com>	May 16
to me

You know what happen Joey? 

I don't want to married some people don't want to learning everything

That's why i take you to that university

But you aready to show me you are stupid enough to canot learning everything

It's all

P.Thao Duong <katiefoung@gmail.com>	May 16
to me

Some friend talk to me

I didn't have to keep conection with some men are Poor - and selfish 

Because i can get some men best more

Some men already have a house in his country

Some men already can have a job by him self to make money

And some men really are Gentlement enought shame to understand never use the women money for the first they meeting

My life is too short 

After my father die , he teach me some thing 

Life is too short to lost the time for the people not good enough when they stay with you

I don't know about your parents

May be because they choice another way like my father and mother

They devoice - my parent are not

Ofcouse my father and my mother still have a girl friend and boy friend both of them

But they still come back with each orther because they worried their children is me and my sister

(but your parent is not - i can see what they choice , they don't care what the looking of their children give for them , keep married and come to the orther wedding)

It's can't be accept in my familly

That's why they teach you a different way from me

But i just don't know what different

I just testing some thing with you

And after that , i see my future will not good when i still life with you

I like a adult men (but you always want to be a young men)

I like the men have a good familly - same like my parent familly - to make sure my mother can accept (she can't said with you because she don't know English , but she said with me VietNamese : I don't like it , i don't like the way Joey Mother choice , it's different way with me)

And i like the Rich man , working in the public place , take the money and come back home with wife

The wife always stay at home , take care the children , go to charity , make some thing for people just have fun and do the good

I don't like to fighting people everyday to make money , it's too stress

Have some people have to do that for me , it should be my husband

I just want to stay at home and waiting him to come back

I'm a solf girl

I always stay in home for working , stay in the library , make the solf thing handmade stuff

I'm not the strong girl you looking for

Strong enough to drive men everyday to the school

My father said i drive too bad , not strong than my sister

And it's true

I just thing , because you are not my dream boy , and i'm not your dream girl 

Why we have to lost the time for the other?

You lost you bicycle for the class you don't want to

But i have to pay everything back for my boss , for your boss , to meeting them (take your new working table , take your new book) , and they cell phone when they call me and i'm drive can't be accept , it's lost money when i call back too

Who will pay for me? The boss cell phone is have in our deal? 

So let it go!

I will come to datevn.com company tomorow!

And plant to married some men (1. 30 - 45 year old , 2. Have a job , a house , and didn't life with his familly) - have some Causian men like that want to married Vietnamese girl

I just have to choice 1

Have a company will help me, dating , translate the letter , make up , planing for wedding , and find the man can pay anything for it

I just think , if i can find some thing place like this , why i have to waiting you ? 

Try to write it by English

Kathy

Original Oatmeal Gmail <originaloatmeal@gmail.com>	May 16
to P.Thao

You asked me why do you have to wait for me. I do not know the answer to that question. I did not say that you are waiting for me. I do not completely understand that question. You still do not understand the concept of free. It does not matter if things cost money. What you say to me is irrelevant to your word because your word is bond. What you say is more important than money. You are to abide by what you say and by the actions you make. You did not have to talk to my boss. You never had to talk to her. You did not have to. Nobody stuck a gun at your head. There were no requirements.

Watch your mouth where blessing and curses are birth. Keep your promises. Commit to your contracts. Do not make excuses. Do not prematurely change your mind. Do not walk away from prearranged plans. Do not complain about the things that you have agreed to. You have altered your position in so many things and you are two-faced. You say things that are not completely consistent with your character.

You refuse to see things for how they really are. You lie about things. You are lost in your thoughts. You have potential. I love you. I never ran away from you. I wish you the best. You miss the point at times. You are complaining about things that you previously accepted. Do not be a grumpy giver. You are taking your generosity. You are always trying to alter your deals and contracts and commitment and oaths and promises. You should not do things like that. When you say you are going to do something, do it. Do not turn around and  yell about it.

If I give you $1.000.000 VND right now then that is fine. I should not turn around and complain about it. This is a hypothetical example. I am just saying that if I give you something, then it is free for you. You do not have to give me that money back ever. I should not get mad at you at all. If I give you money, I should not later ask "Oh, but you never gave me money back, have you?" I should not do that, but that is what you are doing to me. You are upset that you gave me charity and generosity and hospitality and free food and free room and board and free room for rent and free food and free rides and free sex and free phone calls and free fun and free friends and free so many things. It was your problem that you gave me those things for free, but they were all free but my bicycle was not free for you.

When you go to a store, you give them money. You have to buy things. If you do not give them money, then it is free. The people in the store will ask you for money. You give them money if they ask for the money. If you are a store, I will give you money. But you are not a store. At your hand made shop, people will give you money. But you have to name your price. You tell them how much money. If you do not tell them how money, then it is free.

If I give you a hamburger, and I do not ask you for money, then the hamburger is free. You do not have to ever pay me money. You do not have to give me money ever. The hamburger is free for you because I did not ask you for money. That is how things work.

You did not ask me for money. You said that I could stay at your house for free but I asked you for money for my bike. I did name a price but you did not. Everything you gave me was free because you never said how much money but I told you how much money for my bike and I did not actually sell my bike. You ran off with my bike and you knew I wanted money for it but you still ran off with the money and you continue to insult me about how smart I am and about how smart you think I am not and you do not understand my mother or father or siblings or friends at all. You speak lies that are not true.

 Youa re a passionate person. You have a beautiful smile. You speak lies. You are infected with demons and bugs in your spine. You have bipolar disease. You have split personality. You strive on the pain and suffering of others. You love having fun. You like hanging out with others. You hate your parents. You stole my bike. You raped me a few times. You are closing your eyes and ears from reality. I adore you. I care about you. I never left you. I never asked you for things. You refuse to see the truth in what I write. You do not understand your own history of your own country. Christ loves you. I tried being Buddhist for you. Freedom is yours. I love you. Stop laughing. It is still there. You are losing your character and honesty. You are two-faced.

I am trying to be here for you as friends. You should marry your best friend. The love of money is the root of all evil or a bunch evil, they say. You are loving money more than the value of actual friendships. You should lose some weight. I do not like horse penis. You tried making me eat bad things. Ask Christ into your lives. I tried being Buddhist for you but Buddha is not speaking to me but Jesus Christ God talks to me everyday in so many ways. Only Christianity is the right religion and many people will die and burn in Hell. Your father might be in hell now. Your mother might be going to Hell. Your sister may go to that bottomless pit of everlasting hades and river of fire.

I am not a child. I am a man. You are acting like a little girl. You are making fun of me and saying things that are not true about me. You stole my money and that is what makes you big troll and fraud in this world. I do not cause you stress or problems. You are the problem and the stress.

Original Oatmeal Gmail <originaloatmeal@gmail.com>	3:07 PM (0 minutes ago)
to P.Thao

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